sweet of feet wrote: ↑
that's because Cloggy is up to her eyes (sometimes literally) in dog stuff atm.I imagine it's a bit like having a new baby in the house (except that this particular baby weighs more than I do and follows me about all day) - your whole routine is turned upside down as the new creature tries to work out what all this new stuff is and what its place in the household is.
After a very peaceful first night he decided to spend his second night howling like a wolf to summon his new found pack to his side. For a big dog he has a surprisingly soft sort of howl but it's a noise that still somehow manages to penetrate to your very bone marrow. I knew that if I went downstairs to reassure him that he hadn't been abandoned I would be rewarding him for his howling so had to resist. But after a while I couldn't stand it and Something Had To Be Done.
I decided on a compromise. I would go down and ignore him and open the curtains, as his previous owner said he liked to look out of the windows (and had been given a place on the sofa to facillitate this, something that isn't necessary here). So I did that. It seemed to help and we were all able to fall into an uneasy sleep. (I dreamt that my campervan was parked on the beach while we had a walk and when I came back the left front tyre was spectacularly flat and melting rubber in a river of black down into the sea. The horror, the horror.)
Shortly after I woke up I heard intermittent howling start again but it was about time to get up anyway so I timed my descent so that I would be going into the living room in between howls. And, rather than rushing out down to the canal immediately with a jacket pulled over my jammies like I did on the first morning, thinking he might desperately need a pee, I managed to start to let him know that that wasn't how it worked here. I did my bathroom stuff, got dressed and a thermos mug of coffee made and only then did we go out the door. He was fine with this - I think he was just glad that I had reappeared from the mysterious 'upstairs'.
And this, dear readers, is one of the (many) reasons it's a good thing I never had yer actual babies of my own. I would long have bored everyone to death with the dull details of their existence. ;-)
It's reassured me that this is indeed all fairly normal and that he's actually doing pretty well all things considered. I've had 3 adult dogs before but of course there's always years in between and it's easy to forget the initial period of adjustment. I do think that this time it's marginally more 'problematic' than with previous dogs but even so, it could certainly be a lot worse. I'm sure we'll be fine.
Just back from a very windswept walk where he was able to run about and get rid of some of his nervous energy.











